Dressing for Portraits: Embracing Your True Self and Letting Kids Be Kids


Portraits are like time capsules that freeze special moments and capture our true selves. When it comes to dressing for portraits, it's all about representing who you really are. Let’s dive into the importance of authenticity and discuss how children (and all of us, really) can get mixed messages about acceptance when they're forced to dress up and act like someone else for photos. When we look back on these photos in the future – and that’s what they are for – will we want to see a family playing dress up and fake smiling while everyone stares at the same spot?

Or will we want to see beautiful moments taken right out of the middle of the complicated, unique journey we are on with the people we love the most?

Being True to Yourself: Your Personal Style

 

Portraits are a chance to show off your unique personality and style. Dressing authentically means wearing clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident. So, go ahead and rock those colors, cuts, and patterns that speak to your soul. By staying true to your preferences, you'll create a portrait that reflects your true identity.

Don’t dress like someone else. It’s easy to want to look like someone else in your photos. So many times people ask me if I am going to touch up their photos or tell me to make them look younger or thinner.

Honey, I would never. What I am going to do is make you look happier, more confident, and loved. I promise that is so much better.

Embrace Your Uniqueness: Imperfections Are Beautiful

 

In a world obsessed with perfection and conformity, embracing your quirks and uniqueness is a powerful act of self-love. When dressing for portraits, celebrate the aspects that make you distinctly you – scars, freckles, and all. Remember, these imperfections tell your story and make you beautiful. Embrace them, and your portrait will become a testament to your self-acceptance and self-love.

I am going to get all of you from so many angles and even if you struggle with loving yourself enough to show up in this portrait, we will find each other. We will find the parts of you that you can admire and pull them out for the whole world to see.

Mixed Messages and Children: Letting Kids Be Kids

 

Children often receive conflicting messages about acceptance when it comes to dressing up for photos. On one hand, we want them to be themselves and embrace their individuality. On the other hand, we pressure them and bribe them like they better not show up as they are. Chances are, your kids will be more compliant and better behaved than you expected, especially if you don’t force them to wear something they hate.

 

I believe in giving kids the freedom to choose at least one outfit for their portraits. Letting them express themselves allows them to build confidence and a sense of identity. When you look back, the more they are themselves in a photo the more sentimental it becomes. They won’t be this way for long, the way things change, so let’s just get them as they are and let them be enough. Let them bring some favorite things that reflect what they are into right now. Let’s get images of your kid. Not some kid you saw on Instagram.

The Lasting Joy of Authentic Representation

 

When we dress authentically for portraits, we not only create meaningful artwork but also experience personal growth. Embracing our true selves leads to a deeper love and acceptance of who we are. By cherishing the end product, we reinforce the importance of embracing our authentic selves in all aspects of life. When we hang these portraits in our homes and share them with loved ones, we are sharing our true selves, and showing our kids we are proud of them just the way they are.

Portraits become more than just pictures; they become reminders of our journey towards self-discovery and self-love.

Dressing for portraits is all about embracing your true self and allowing your unique personality to shine through. Don't forget to let kids be kids and have a say in their outfits, as it fosters their confidence and individuality. If you need assistance with styling or shopping ideas, count on me to help you out. Remember, when we dress authentically, we create portraits that reflect our genuine essence and embark on a journey of self-discovery and lasting self-love.

(That is not to say it is easy to choose clothing for a session. I am happy to help any of my clients journey through selecting their authentic wardrobes.)

Finding the Right Photographer for Your Family Pictures


Family pictures are a timeless treasure that capture memories and milestones. They are more than just a visual representation of your family; they are a representation of love, laughter, and togetherness. That's why it's essential to choose the right photographer to capture your family's unique personality and story.

Here are some tips to help you find the right photographer for your family pictures:

Determine your style: Before you start your search for a photographer, think about the style of photography you want for your family. Do you prefer posed or candid shots? Do you want a more traditional or contemporary look? Knowing your style preferences will make it easier to find a photographer who aligns with your vision.

Look at portfolios: Look at the portfolios of different photographers to get a feel for their style, creativity, and experience. Once you narrow down your faves, ask the photographer for a couple of full galleries, and make sure the session look sin line with what you would like to accomplish.

Check for experience: Choose a photographer who has experience with family photography. Check their reviews to see what others have said about their experience. A photographer who has experience with families will know how to capture the unique dynamics of your family and create meaningful, timeless images.

Consider budget: Photography is an investment, and you want to find a photographer who fits within your budget. However, don't sacrifice quality for price. Choose a photographer who offers fair pricing for the quality of their work.

Schedule a consultation: Schedule a consultation with the photographer to get to know them and see if they are a good fit for your family. A good photographer will listen to your ideas and work with you to create the perfect pictures.

Ask about their process: Ask the photographer about their process, from pre-shoot planning to editing and final delivery. You want to make sure they are professional, organized, and have a clear process in place.

Finding the right photographer for your family pictures is essential in capturing your family's unique story. By following these tips, you can find a photographer who will create beautiful, timeless images that you and your family will cherish for years to come.

 

Where I love to EAT~ Volusia County Edition

 

Daytona Beachside

Millie’s (Farm to Table)
Porto Fino (Italian)
Genovese’s (Italian)
Casual Bird (Coffee Shop)
Hyde Park (Steak House)
Dairy Bar (Ice Cream)

Daytona Beach Mainland

Chart House (Best Happy Hour! Steak House)
Mama Foo Foo (Asian Fusion)
Four Rivers (Barbecue)
Zen Bistro (Thai)
The Cellar (Fancy)
Oliv (Mediterranean)

 

Port Orange

Rossi’s (Diner)
First Watch (Breakfast and Lunch)
La Fiesta (Mexican)
Leanh’s (Chinese)
Martini’s (Super Fancy Organic Dinner)
Aunt Catfish (Home Cooking and BRUNCH)

 

New Smyrna Beach

Café Verde
Third Wave
Flagler Tavern (Fun)
The Garlic (Fancy)
Treats on the Beach (Ice Cream)

Ormond Beach

Rose Villa (Fancy Drinks and Southern Fare)
FUGU (Sushi)
31 Supper Club

It's October! Christmas Mini Sessions are HERE!

I wish I was kidding y’all, but welcome to the snowball fight!

I am offering In Studio Mini Sessions this year, and just wanted to go through 2017 sessions to remember all the props I have to pull out of the basement!

The best part about In Studio Mini Sessions is that you have a more flexible booking schedule.
Also, PROPS.

If you are wanting Holiday Cards, the sooner you book the better. I can’t be shooting y’all December 9th and getting you back anything in time for MAIL. LET’S BE REASONABLE!!!

Bring anything you have that you think is super cute, because this little guy’s reindeer hat is HIS.

The Santa hat is mine…..
I totally loved this wreath last year and can’t wait to trim it up for 2018!

(Must bring your own dog.)
((Kidding, I can bring mine if you don’t have one, but still want one for pictures.))

I cannot lend out this many children to make your pictures this beautiful.
You will have to bring your own.
I DO have a bunch of cutesy pie dresses for little girls.
ALL of these, in fact.

I also have clothes for mom if she can’t figure out what to wear.
I love playing dress up.

KIDS IN PAJAMAS
seriously, there is nothing cuter and more holiday than a fuzzy onesie!!
These are my kids, and I am dying that they still look so young here.
It’s the PJs, for sure.

Glam it up. I change the sets around per your preference and wardrobe choice.
Ugh. THESE TWO.
I cannot even with their holiday perfection.

You will want to keep the outtakes. You can add images for $15 per download if 5 isn’t enough!

Bring your dang dog. Let’s level up those family cards!

Bring whomever you like.

This is YOUR holiday pic.. Let’s bring in strangers from the street!

Or feel free to clone your children because ONE OF THIS FACE IS NOT ENOUGH!!!

Follow this link for more information and to secure your session!

IN STUDIO
20 minute session
access to studio props and wardrobe
5 images to download from gallery

ALL SALES FINAL


All Mini sessions must be scheduled before November 13 to be turned around before December 1st.

Mother's Day is May 13th!! Don't screw it up THIS YEAR!!

I'm a mom, and I have two of them, and let me tell you, moms love to look at beautiful pictures of themselves and their babies, even when they aren't babies anymore. It's 2018! We give mom what she wants! And we show her how beautiful her love is and what it means to us that she keeps showing up to love us.

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For all the late nights, middle of the nights and early mornings.
For all the kissed booboos and broken hearts.
For the times she stood up for you even when you weren't totally right.
For the times she just sat there quietly when she needed you.

But mostly for the everyday, very mundane, repetitive mommy motions that she performs with beauty and grace even if her hair is in a bun and she hasn't gotten out of yoga pants in 4 days. Mother hood is a journey built on ideals and hopes and dreams and then comes crashing in as the hardest job she will ever show up for. 

But I am gonna help her see how beautiful all of this is. Then on nights when her deadlines are looming, her email is stacked, the baby is crying and the laundry is looking more and more like it's begging for a raging dumpster fire, she will be able to look at these images and feel SERENE ABOUT HER LIFE CHOICES.

$99 MAMA MINIS

She gets 30 minutes at Studio Be and access to the glorious studio wardrobe.
Sitting with her loved ones in whatever combination she chooses.
Choice of 3 images from gallery to download, share and print.
1 beautiful 8X10
(In time for Mother's Day if session scheduled, shot and selected by April 30, 2018.)




Let's face it. Motherhood is hard. Every day should be mother's day but actually days, weeks, HOW LONG GOES BY that we don't even thank her for what she is doing for us, and what she isn't doing for herself because she doesn't have time for it?

I am not saying that this special is going to CHANGE HER LIFE, so you might want to take her to brunch, too.

This baby is having brunch on her mom's FACE. Take her to brunch without the baby.

This baby is having brunch on her mom's FACE. 
Take her to brunch without the baby.

Oh, and here is one more thing. 

I know there is a mama out there who really needs this.
So comment here, or go to this post on my facebook page and nominate a mama that could really use this, and my kids will pick a winner on April 25th.

Your mama loves you. More than I do.

Get her this special because if I tell her about it and you missed out then she might stop making you eggs in the morning.

YOU CAN PURCHASE IT RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW.

My Sisters, the Holidays, Memory Lane and Two Gorgeous Dresses

The holidays were AMAZING this year, and one of my favorite parts of it is watching the family grow. I have BROTHERS now! and Mom has SONS. And of that she is enamored. I feel like the family is finally complete, and of course, I have subjects to photograph at Christmas. Here is a picture of said gorgeous boys and a couple of presents from their doting mother-in-law.

I mean come on. They are so perf.

I mean come on. They are so perf.

WARNING: This post gets political as I zoom in on the socks she gave each of them.
(The views and opinions expressed by these socks are those of the socks and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any person in this picture.)

Mom couldn't stop giggling about these socks.

Mom couldn't stop giggling about these socks.

I think they even like each other. And might be starting a band.

This album drops New Year's Eve, YO.

This album drops New Year's Eve, YO.

BUT THIS POST ISN'T ABOUT THEM.

It's about my sisters!

UGH! CUTIE PIES!

UGH! CUTIE PIES!

These two have been lighting up my life since 1987-88. Probably the first little things I fell in love with, they have always been my living dolls. I get super excited when we all get to be together.

I get SO EXCITED, in fact. that I JUST MIGHT bring a trunk full of dresses and make them play dress ups for me. I mean, you are never to old for dress ups with your sisters. And I can never get enough of these two. And then I'm all LET'S RUN DOWNSTAIRS AND PLAY CATALOG MODEL. And they come. Because I am the big sister and there will be NO TURKEY OR NAPS until I get some PICS. :) (I'm the meanest!)

Oh look! They are all grown up now!!!

Oh look! They are all grown up now!!!

I am so crazy about these two. Best presents my parents ever gave me!

I am so crazy about these two. Best presents my parents ever gave me!

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Every little thing they do looks like magic to me! I am smitten. 

Aren't they lovely? My favorite part is getting pictures of them that I love capturing of my own daughters. It's like a time traveling experience. BABIES GROW UP TOO FAST!

I'll take "Pictures that make a mom cry." for 2000, Alex.

I'll take "Pictures that make a mom cry." for 2000, Alex.

The dresses my sisters are wearing are from the newly released collection by Whims + Waves.
The texture and flow of the material was absolutely luxurious and soft. The halter dress could be styled for any occasion, and the teal keyhole maxi is just really would make a beautiful choice for bridesmaid dresses. They wanted to keep them forever, but as much as I love my sisters, they only gets dibs on LAST YEAR'S client wardrobe. 

But I told them, and I will tell YOU, if you order from Whims + Waves and use my discount code (KVAND25), you can order these dresses for your very own closet, and get 25% OFF your order! No shipping in the United States.

2018 is THE YEAR OF THE DRESS

I LOVE BOHEMIAN BEACH DRESSES.

THERE I SAID IT.

I love them on myself, and I love them on my subjects because THERE IS ART to the way a dress like that moves. And also there is the LOVELY. In the right dress, even if it is not something you would NORMALLY wear, YOU WILL FEEL BEAUTIFUL, because it is beautiful and it is ON YOU.

I mean, you don't NORMALLY get your pictures made. It is a SPECIAL OCCASION. Even if we are looking for an easy breezy casual candid adventure documentary, the wardrobe should be SPLENDID and you should feel and look amazing.

AND THIS IS WHERE I GET MY DRESSES.
 

I mean LOOK AT THESE DETAILS. GUH THIS IS A DRESS!!

I mean LOOK AT THESE DETAILS. GUH THIS IS A DRESS!!

A little skin, a lot of flow, those gorgeous scallops - YOU CAN BE A MERMAID QUEEN, I am in love with everything about this dress but WAIT TIL YOU SEE THE BACK.

gorgeous blue dress

This gorgeous dress and the lovely jewelry can be found HERE.  
Use the code KVAND25 to get 25% off!!
(always free shipping in the USA)

A dress brings DRAMA to any session, I love the layering of textures and jewelry and fabrics as they work together to create something amazing.

gorgeous mauve dress

I am absolutely in love with this dress, and it has a little jumpsuit inside so you feel like you are beautiful and ready for action all at the same time!

Find this gorgeous dress HERE.
Use the code KVAND25 to get 25% off!!
(always free shipping in the USA)

 

Can we all take a moment to drool over this mixed metal BLING?
I need ALL THE BLING.

These necklaces are TO DIE FOR.
(Don't forget the CODE!! KVAND25!!)

gorgeous y necklace

Do you want one more peek into this gorgeous collection??
DO YA??

OF COURSE YOU DO!!!

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This one might be my favorite. I love the color and the fit of this one.

AND THE DETAILS OMG.

beautiful dresses for photo shoots

This dress is perfect for any body. It can be styled up all kinds of ways and would be quite lovely on a pregnant subject as well.

This gorgeous dress will anchor any photo session in just the right amount of lovely. Mama should shine like an heirloom diamond in family photos, and layered with a beautiful shawl and just the right jewelry, this dress is pretty much perfect.

Find it HERE.
And don't forget to use the code KVAND25 for 25% off your purchase!!

The bad news is, I have run out of time for this blog.
The good news is, I HAVE MORE DRESSES!!!!

STAY TUNED!

Family Holiday Mini Sessions and a visit from The Ghost of Christmas Past!

It's 1 week until Christmas 2017 and I can't even believe how fast time flies!
I am going to roll out ALL of my gorgeous Holiday Sessions now that everyone has had time to print and send their cards.

In fact, LET'S TALK CARDS for a sec...

Do you understand when you need to have your pictures ready to order cards to get out in time? Questions you MAY want to ask yourself:

1) How busy is my favorite photographer? 
2) How fast can I get my images back to order cards and gifts?

HOW QUICKLY WILL MY LIFE FLASH BEFORE MY IMPENDING HOLIDAY DENYING EYES?????

Even *I* don't know the answers to the crazy questions, but if NEXT YEAR goes anything like THIS YEAR, I would think you will need to book your date long before you really want to think about it if your favorite photographer is ME.

REMEMBER: LUCK FAVORS THE PREPARED!!

Also IF YOUR FAVORITE PHOTOGRAPHER IS ME, then let's make sure we freely communicate about your wardrobe and details. I love to incorporate fun holiday themes and colors and items and the more we talk the more you are gonna love your final images.

I mean, I don't expect you to have this awesome VW bus, BUT IF YOU DO, then bet your bippy I want to incorporate into your family mini sessions. I am so in love with the adorable details that really make this morning mini session scream WINTER HOLIDAY even though I am sure it warmed up to 80 degrees that day.

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Family Mini sessions ON LOCATION are 30 minutes of shooting and we generally get a good 35-50 pics for you to choose your faves from.

30 MINUTES.

THE BOYS IN YOUR FAMILY WON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT THEY JUST ACCOMPLISHED FOR YOU.

WARDROBE TIPS: if you are a mom wearing an outfit with jeans, BRING THE BLING and a POP of SHOE GLAMOUR. I am so loving this statement necklace and her little red suede shoes DO IT FOR ME.

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CLIENT TIP: I am on schedule with this family every other year for updates to the image library. So naturally, Barb was brilliant enough to schedule her session before ANYBODY ELSE. I mean, Barb knows she has to get in there early, and she has to bring me fun stuff to play with. BE LIKE BARB. WE HAVE GROWN TOGETHER. WE GET EACH OTHER. I LOVE HER.

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Same family, same location, 2 years ago in 2015!!
We have all grown up so much!

SUPER BLAST FROM THE PAST: 2013

I mean the best part is that she still let me keep coming back, and that I kept trying to get better and better.

Studio Be - Daytona Beach Maternity Photography

Hurricane Irma blew the roof off of our building on Beach Street in Daytona but we had a new one on within a week. It was a dirty wet mess that required a bunch of clean up and in the end we had to refurnish and rearrange the entire space.

I couldn't be happier with the results. It's a bright wonderful space full of light and lovely spots.

My lovely friend came to visit and dress up and lounge around with me and I have been super excited to share these images I snapped of her that day.

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The studio is available for sessions, and I can't wait to get you in there. 
Contact me today and get on my schedule before the end of the year!

Mini Sessions are here!

WHAT IS A MINI SESSION?

It's a shorter session, with less images, for less money! YAY!
These are great for family gifts and Holiday Cards!
Choose from 3 dates and locations.

1st Date/Location

Sugar Mill Gardens
October 29th
9:00 AM
9:45 AM
10:30 AM

30 minute session
8 digital images print release
1-8x10
$200

Are you an existing client? $25 OFF*!
Earn$25 credit for referring a friend**!


 

Sugar Mill Gardens is a beautiful park off of Herbert in Port Orange that has all kinds of gorgeous backdrops. Perfect for Fairy Tale costumes!

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Or choose this beautiful story book setting for a little Mommy and Me or Family one-on-one. We will find a lovely spot to capture everything we can in 30 minutes. Trust me, that's a lot of time for us to develop something lovely.

You will receive a link to an online gallery within 2 weeks, and print rights to 8 images.

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2nd Date/Location

Beach Family Sessions
Wilbur-by-the-Sea
November 4th
7:45 AM
8:15 AM

5:30 PM
6:00 PM

30 minute session (these session run super tight so you can't be late!
8 digital images print release
1-8x10
$200

Are you an existing client? $25 OFF*!
Earn$25 credit for referring a friend**!

 

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3rd Date/Location

Studio Be
November 11th

Urban Beach Street
9:00 AM
9:45 AM
10:30 AM

In-studio Christmas Sessions

11:30 AM
12:00 PM
12:30 PM

Urban Sunset

4:45 PM

20 minute session
8 digital images print release
1-8x10
$200

Are you an existing client? $25 OFF*!
Earn$25 credit for referring a friend**!

* if you have hired me in the past to be your photographer, this applies to you!
** friend must be paid in full before $25 credit will be issued.

MINI SESSIONS ARE NON REFUNDABLE AND PAYMENT IS DUE IN FULL TO BOOK.
SESSIONS WILL BE CROSSED OFF AS THEY ARE BOOKED.

questions? email me a kvandermizer@gmail.com